rinseandrep said 9 years, 2 months ago:
Like with other passive aggressive behaviors, I think it could help to take literally what he says and act like he is ok and do your thing while he spends that time to get to the point where he can interact you normally. So you come back, you know he’s going to be distant a bit, and keep yourself busy and wait until he’s ok to resume your normal couple life.
It will either solve the problem, because you don’t have to analyze/discuss to death every single thing, if he feels something he has the option to deal with it on his own like an adult, without taking it out on you or your relationship; or, it will give him a reason to talk to you about what bothers him once he realizes he has to because you won’t keep probing him.
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