Em said 8 years, 10 months ago:

So, a bit of background — I’m fourteen years old and I’m a bit sheltered when it comes to sex (at least compared to my friends) — I hit puberty (or puberty hit me..) when I was ten, but I’ve always been really, really embarrassed at the thought of being sexual (to the extent that I tried, and failed, to be excused from my primary school sex education classes) — there have been boys I’ve fancied but I’ve never made any move on them (or had any move made on me..), but I’ve barely touched myself before and apart from what a cousin left poorly hidden I’ve never looked at porn — in short, I’ve been told that some friends and even family think I’m asexual, and that I’m considered to be my school’s biggest nerd (I don’t think I am, but I know I’m a perfectionist..) — I don’t take any pride in that, it’s just the way I am.

And now I’m being subjected to secondary school sex education classes, and in a class a few weeks ago there was a video of a guy ejaculating.. And it’s like a switch has been flipped in my brain. Before? I touched myself once a month, at most. After? I touch myself several times every day, and I’m wet when I wake up every morning. It’s stupid. I’m too young to have sex, I’ve seen penises before, in sex education classes and real life — I have three brothers — and there’s not even a boy I fancy at the moment (I overheard a friend of the last boy I fancied telling them that they though I’d be a “really boring lay”..) — so why am I feeling this way now?

random girl said 8 years, 10 months ago:

Haha you’re 14, this is normal. You have hormones in your body that make you feel this way. There’s nothing wrong with what you’re going through in my opinion, it’s just a part of growing up.

Alexa said 8 years, 10 months ago:

It’s just the hormones like the girl above me stated, nothing to fear! Sexuality is not something to be feared or shamed but embrace it and BE SAFE about it. You’re fine, honey.

Kkb17 said 8 years, 9 months ago:

This is definitely normal. At 14 you are starting to have an awakening of sorts. You’re right, you’re too young to have sex. And there’s no need to rush out and act on the urges you have. It’s perfectly ok to explore your own body. It’s safe and natural.

Ayana said 8 years, 9 months ago:

This isnt like weird or abnormal at all. Dont act on your thoughts or urges but if you’re thinking of them or touching yourself, dont be ashamed or disgusted with yourself. No matter what anyone tells you, this really isnt a strange topic. Its just your “Awakening” lol you’ll be just fine.

AnnieH said 8 years, 8 months ago:

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