Introvert said 10 years, 7 months ago:

It might not be easy, but I feel that understanding the reasons for wanting the divorce is very important. Perhaps try to see things from the outside and allow yourself to see the negatives in your parents’ relationship (even though we’re raised to believe mommy and daddy are perfect). This is how I’ve come to terms with my parents’ divorce. The more you understand, the better you can handle it.