bluesgirl31 said 9 years, 5 months ago:
I’m pretty sure my husband cheated or is cheating. He will not admit it and I’m tired of even trying to figure it out. All signs say he did and is probably still doing so, but I have no real concrete proof. I wish he would just tell me and get it over with so I can let go and move on. That is the only way I am ever going to be able to.
I’m so broken and depressed. I feel like he has broken me into pieces,and took away my confidence and self esteem. He says he loves me, but I just don’t believe him anymore. I think hes faking it. You can’t say the things he has said to me in the past or do the things he has done to me and then say you love me. Its like he has wanted to break my confidence and make me insecure…which if so he has succeeded.
Everyone says leave, that I deserve better. I know what I deserve, I am a grown woman. I know how to walk away. I have done it before very easily. I just want to make sure I make the right decision. I have not been perfect by far, but I have always been faithful and honest to him. He is by far the love of my life.I suppose that is why this has been so difficult because I just can’t picture my life without him, but on the other hand I can’t picture my life with him like this either.
He swears he has always been faithful to me,
I want to believe him so bad but because he lied to me in the past over something simple, I can not get over it. I believe if it was that easy for him to lie to me over something simple, then he will definitely lie over something like this. If I could just find out for sure I know that I would be able to make definite decision. I need that in order to move on either with him or without him.
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