Wanderingmind said 10 years, 5 months ago:

Me and my boyfriend are 14 years apart, we have our adjustments we have to deal with but we handle it ok at times.

Broken 1 said 10 years, 5 months ago:

My husband is 8 years older then me. It’s ok. I always tease him and tell him he’s robbing the cradle.

Blackpea said 10 years, 3 months ago:

well, my love is 24 years older.. we had been doing fine all the time.
older guys could lead you at times when you faces difficulties , and they were more emotionally mature and mentally mature
having a stable income and career its a credit too.
you’ll feel safe when he is around knowing that he had the strength to pull you up when you’re down in dumps..
Besides, older man that had in serious relationship before know how to treat his girl better.. (more likely becuz he dont want to lose his girl like how he loses his ex)
For my case, my man is my mentor, he taught me a lot of things, including academic stuffs, in work or in life.
He is sensitive to my emotions too.. ^^

As long as you both spend more time understanding each other (DONT EVER BE SELF CENTRE), you’ll could work it out.. man ned love, attention, and care. though they dint show. Being a strong man doesn’t means that he’s a superman, he will ned a person to lean on when he is wound someday…

Deleted User said 9 years, 11 months ago:

lol at younger girls, getting manipulated by older guys, like pls stop with the mentally and emotionally mature bullshit, be real for a sec, im a guy, so think from a guys perspective, its all about the game, personally if i was 30, id like them fresh too, like 30 year old women are hot, but they are such a minority..

and pps, at 30 to even think a 22 year old is worth something more in terms of being mature, like at 22 you are a fucking kid, im 22 btw;p

Deleted User said 9 years, 11 months ago:

@theclearmind from my eyes, i believe its for the “greater control” part, rather than find a true equal sometimes its easier to manipulate a girl/guy when they are levels of thinking below you in maturity and experience, hence making them dependent on you, in a way making them completely need you, and some guys need that kind of secuirty from their women, maybe they been dumped too many times, or been cheated on etc..
Some guys can only do them young girls for this reason, as they are not provided for, not settled in life, hell for most girls in college i know, i flash my car around and they are in, obviously it helps im a good guy, but i hope you see where my point of thinking comes in;p,there is reasoning in a persons subconscious behind everything, even to the people we are attracted to, whether we are aware it for not.
Another reason I think that has equal grounds, is the older male, is himself at the maturity of the girl who is his partner, hence he is a kid, and still needs to grow up, all is good, till one outgrows the other.

In some cases, it might truly work, but i wont delude myself into that, unless I have exhausted all viable options for a true equal in life, obviously considering I am a person who is capable of finding that, if not guess Id have to compromise like these men/women..

Enoli said 9 years, 10 months ago:

I just got out of a relationship of 12 year age gap. I’m 20. I constantly felt like I had to act for him, be a late-twenties something girlfriend. He didn’t put that pressure on me, I did. I think these types of relationships CAN work, even though clearly mine did not (we also had distance working against us). It was refreshing, in a way, to have a different perspective on life. I enjoyed hearing about his childhood and learning from him, as he learned from me too (age makes you forget what it was like to be 20).

Deleted User said 9 years, 9 months ago:

It’s not a problem. My wife is 10 years older than me. If you love someone, you don’t have to worry about how old is she/he..