My boyfriend and I fought a little bit, but the main reason he broke up with me is because he is way too stressed out about everything in his life, and needs to be selfish and take time for himself. I believe him, I don’t think its an excuse. I want to change and make our relationship less stressful. He said we should not talk for a while to gather our emotions. We haven’t talked for a week and a half. In about a week I want to ask him to coffee, but IDK what to do to make him want our relationship back. Please help.
Give him his space, if he says no to the coffee, don't be too upset about it either, but when you two talk again you should ask him what he needs from you to make the relationship work. After that YOU should take a breather from him, think about his "demands" and whether or not you really feel it's worth it and if you think it sounds reasonable.