i just wanna know why does a listener ALWAYS wait for the venter to start the conversation ? not only start the conversation but also keep it going ! WHY ?!
a venter is someone who has a lot on thier chest and already feeling down, sometimes its hard for someone to vent
AS A LIStTENER youre supposed to be the one saying the first “hi” and “how are you”
seriously its just lame. your supposed to try and get it out from them and help them open up to you. its not a machine where you insert your problem and it gives you solutions, we are two human beings communicating. even if you cant help with the problem at least help them talk about it and let it out.
im usually here as a listener more than a venter but when im here as a venter i kinda see this alot and im sorry but i think its rude.
sorry had to get it out….have a good day and plz be positive and friendly when youre the listener