Why am I an option?

OMG this is exactly how i feel and there is no waty of really answering this question which i have found out. but just keep being your kindhearted lovin self and maybe try confronting them about the problem. If they cant understand why thats hurting you or they dont see how truly amazing you are to them then they probabally dont deserve you! you deserve to be treated how you treat others. Tell them what they are doing if they dont change they do not deserve your awesomess.

There is nothing at all wrong with you, you just feel this way as of now. You cannot control what other people do or think, so don't worry about them. If someone is truly your friend, they will always do what they can to be with you or just hang out. However, unless that your best friend has said that they like this other person over you, then I would not draw the conclusion that you are somehow inferior. Your value can be determined by one person, yourself; let no one tell you differently.

I have this same problem, or at least the feeling that I do. I can't assume that you have hard evidence that your friends truly think you as a convience, but for now, if you only feel this way, just try opening up to them more. Maybe not about this topic but about other things. Also, not to scare you or anything, but do consider to look into Social Anxiety. This is a symptom of Social Anxiety and if you have any other symptoms like this one I do want you to get help for it if it is that. This situation is hard to really give advice for other than try to connect with them or branch out to find others who will appreciate you more.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you just haven't found the right people yet. It might take a while but once you do meet them you'll make friends for life. One of the problems might be that you're too nice. It's okay to let go of people who drag you down. The moment it feels like a chore it's time to let them go.

Dump those people and find people who appreciate you more. There's nothing wrong with you and you deserve better than to be the last resort.

Just because they treat you like an option doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. There's obviously something wrong with them, they treat people like games. Sweetie, you can find friends who are worth your time. They aren't your friends, and I know that's hard to stomach.. Find friends who will treat no one as an option, but as their choice. Be strong, you're better than them.