Whens the right time to say that big L word?

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When is the right time? people say when its someone acts like they are but honestly, he has been acting that way since the day i met him.

When is too soon? is there ever a right time? when he acts vulnerable i feel myself thinking ‘Damn, i love you.’ and on some occasions i nearly have told him.

I know people will be like ‘just tell him.’ But honestly, i dont want to tell him and for him to think im a weirdo or it too soon. i in no way want to lose him and if that means waiting forever to tell him i will. can anyone answer my question or share experiences?

Tags: asked March 26, 2013

4 Answers

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My rule of thumb as been 2 months after the first kiss unless the first kiss was part of a one night stand then it is 3 months after first sexual encounter.
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I like the math! Personally, I've never been the first to. I think if it feels right it feels right. Sometimes there can be indicators that tell you they may not be ready for a 'love' type relationship, the biggest usually being that they will tell you so... My personality would lead me to making a game of it... like I had them list things they loved and then we went one for one, so I would have them start and it might go they love apples, and I might go I love cake, and she might say she loves walking barefoot in the rain, and I would say I loved her... but I don't know. That was more a moment of whimsy than actual advice I think. HA! Good luck though :D
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Well, for me...there is no "perfect time" as in based on numbers. Love is such a beautiful word. Probably one of the most beautiful word there ever is. It is just so vast, precious and mysterious. It is not just a word, it can be the whole world for a person who say or even just read it coming from someone dear to them. You'll just know when the "magic moment" comes. Your mind should agree, your soul shall dictate but your heart shall decide. Everything will fall in its right place at the right time. Have a great day and life full of love. :)
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I use the word love pretty casually to be honest. I tell all of my friends I love them because I truly do. I think what really separates a friend love with a significant other love, isn't so much in saying the word, but more in your actions leading up to saying it.