what to do when..

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So as i hv posted before, i was falling in love with a guy who just got married.
So i took advice from Blahtherapy and avoided him.
After he returned from the wedding he texted me and started flirting again.
he started to make out we almost did. and i was feeling miserable.
Then suddenly he said he felt lousy becos he was married n this was wrong.
I completely understood it and we parted pleasantly and he promised we wud be friends.
But the very next day, he completely ignored me as if i was piling on him or something.
I felt like i was being treated like a stalker or a slut.
I cried for days together.
I dunno what to do?
Is it that bad to expect just cordial conversation?

Category: Tags: asked February 25, 2014

5 Answers

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He kind of likes you but he doesn't want to spoil his married life. Which is why he opted out of the fling. Which you understand and that's good. What I think is that he doesn't trust himself. Like if he talks to you he may forget and have a fling with you anyway which for him would have bad consequences. Also he thinks that you might be expecting seeing that things had almost happened. And so he fears you might seduce him. So to prevent any harm he is applying the technique of avoiding you altogether. It is no it your fault anyway you look at it. He is just keeping himself in check. No need to cry!
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Put his number on your block lists and avoid looking him up. That's a married man.
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You deserve better than to be upset about this.
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@Niceguy.. thank you..made me feel much better about it
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And i feel that hei dont blame him but he started it and he walked away. He had said that this wud just be a fling but we wud respect each other And now he doesnt even show basic respect.I feel i fell in love with him but i never expected anything more. then y is he behaving this way? what do i do?