i fell in love with a boy and we were together for 8 months. after we broke up he did everything he could to be able to talk to me from time to time. today its been almost 1 month we haven’t spoken.he sent me a message on facebook yesterday night he told me that he is happy i changed his life positively and he hopes im taking care of myself and my family. this was a bit stupid. i didnt get the purpose of the message. anyway i am still madly in love with him. i am controlling my life as much as possible but i miss him a lot and i have a fear that he will stop loving me although i know he loves me. the point is when i see a happy couple i die inside and i wish it was us. i am very confused whether i should move on because i am too close, or i should get back to him.