What exactly am I supposed to do?

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I’ve had a lot of problems in my life and I don’t know what exactly I’m supposed to do.
I’ve got Asperger’s Syndrome so I’m bad with people.
My first boyfriend died in a car accident.
I just got out of an emotionally abusive friendship.
My crush that I’ve been talking with has suddenly stopped talking to me and…..idk it hurts.
All my friends left for college and I’m still here by myself.
I spend most of my days hanging out with a new friend of mine and his boyfriend and as much as I love them both…..being around them just kind of reminds me that I’m alone.

Category: Tags: asked October 9, 2014

2 Answers

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It definitely sounds like you've got a lot going on right now -- so kudos to you for staying strong and reaching out for some support! It can be really hard when it feels like you're there by yourself when your friends have left but it's great that you still have people around you that you love. Even if they may remind you that you're not in a relationship right now, you're not alone. Try to let them remind you that there is someone out there for you to have that same connection with! But more importantly, focus on what you can control to make yourself happy. What hobbies do you have? What are your aspirations and ambitions? Best of luck!
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Loneliness is something I have felt with all of my life. I can tell you with certainty that almost everyone you know has been lonely at least once in their life. There may not be any way to stop it, but how I cope with lonliness is getting exercise, focusing on my hobbies, and surrounding myself with positive people. If you are up to it, meditation is good too I know EVERYONE says this, but as much as I hate everyone, they are right. I've had depression for 6 years. I have a lot of experience in self help. What you need to do is hang onto the people that make you happy and help them understand what you feel so they can help you.