What does she have that I don’t?

So I have a group of friends that I’ve been hanging out with since 7th grade (I am a sophomore now) and the group is mostly guys and then there is me and my best friend. I don’t know why everyone has had a crush on her and no one has crushed on me. Not that I would go out with any of my closest friends (since I already like and I am talking to someone else) but it would be nice to know if someone had a crush on me as well. Is it something about me that no one likes? My appearance? Sometimes I think it’s my disorder… And the funny thing is that she is currently faking bipolar disorder and she diagnosed her self to have it and it’s ridiculous. She’s my best friend and all but she is doing it for the attention
and it is very annoying. I have an actual mental disorder and I find it a disrespect to see her pretending to be manic and depressed. She wouldn’t want to know how it is to be manic/depressed/hypo/etc. I don’t get it.

Category: Society & Culture asked March 30, 2014

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dani☯

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first of all don't compare your life or who you are or you to anyone, you are you, and they are they. The attention your so called best friend gets from what your saying it seems like its not the type of attention you want, boy don't speak to her for her personality. we all know why their speaking to her. Beside don't worry about if someone has a crush on your etc etc, it's one of those things where u should worry about yourself and live life, it will happen in time, just because someone does not have a crush on you, don't make you ugly? that's just stupid, you need to learn to love yourself before anyone will love you, because if someone loves you, then leaves you, you got nothing, but if you loved yourself, then u got yourself, don't loose who you are, and it seems you worry more about your friend then yourself. Now I don't know what I am saying is helpful or not, but am just sharing my opinion like everyone else

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Mr Smile ☯

P.S if your friend is faking it to get attention etc, she is not the type of person you want to be friends with, trust me, be real. before it back fires

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Mr Smile ☯

I had this when I was in high school. I was the brown haired, big girl and my best friend was the skinny blonde and every single one of our guy friends liked her. Now my friend never faked a mental disorder, however she did fake that she was stupid so that the guys would buy into that whole 'blondes are not bright' fact. This hurt her in the end because she took the easy classes in school and ended up not being able to do what she wanted to do in college. I on the other hand was myself and was able to go do all that I wanted to do. Ya she may have had more boyfriends in high school but where did that get her? Not far. She still lives at home with her mom and dad, where as I own my own home, have trailed around the world and a college grad. So keep your head up, things really do get better.

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J.How

See my answer on your other post. :)

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