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don't try to control him ,the more you do that the more he'd likely to free himself from you. let him be. pointless to control someone just because you hate what you see.

Darling you're not controlling him... you're just not being honest with yourself. You're unhappy in this relationship. You even tried to help him with this addiction and he doesn't try hard enough , tbh , he doesn't even have the right to treat you badly ok? So I'll be straightforward: Break up. There are MILLIONS of guys sooo much better. Who will cuddle with you , who will kiss you, who will want their time but also give you the love you need. Cause that's what you deserve , you deserve to be happy like everyone else, and right now you're just making yourself miserable, you're hurting yourself. So move on, cause your happiness is the best and most important thing right now

I understand you don't want to break up with him, but this guy being a jerk over not being able to use Facebook is ridiculous. Spending some time on social media is no problem. I get it, it's fun. But being at the point where he practically ignores you, and doesn't give you the love and attention that you deserve, is wrong. You deserve somebody better in your life, and maybe ending it would be a wake-up call for him.