What is the most commonly believed event of losing one’s virginity? I’ve seen it range from simple acts of Sex such as handjobs or oral, all the way to only when you finish inside for the first time. Many say you’re no longer a virgin once you had penetrative sex, but there are others that say you’re still technically a virgin if you didn’t orgasm while still inside. So, which should we go off of? Cause honestly if it’s the latter then I guess I’m still technically a virgin.