Trust Issues..

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I was close friends with a girl for two years now.. i told her a secret that i daydream about her friend… and i clearly told her not to tell anyone. The next day the girl i daydream about called me on my phone and kept swearing at me.. She called me a pervert and that she will tell the whole school and ruin my reputation. I lost two friends just like that.. The friend that i told my secret to blocked me from every social media for some reason. I thought she was my friend.. I cant tell anyone about this because they would make fun of me more.. I hate this world!.. This is a nightmare and im so stressed with homework… it happened 30 minutes ago.. I dont know how to respond :’( Help!

Category: asked February 2, 2015

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If they treated you like that then they aren't your true friends. Take a deep breath, take a shower, listen to some music and then do whatever you need to do. Don't let this ruin your life, there are other people out there that will come around and treat you right. Just stay positive
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I'm not here to tell you that these girls aren't your real friends because im sure you yourself realize this. Your big problem is that you feel embarrassed about going to school now and running into them or if they will tell everyone and I have a suggestion but first let me tell you something.It's normal for a person to fantasize or daydream about someone they have a crush on especially if you're a guy and anyone who tells you that isn't true is lying. men tend to daydream sexually sometimes so whether this was your case or not is completely fine a lot of men do it and women even. Now one suggestion on fixing your embarrassment but you have to get out of your comfort zone.Confidence. Confidence is the key to getting through any situation like this. Confidence is also key to reaching goals for it brings out determination and hope as well as other positive emotions. Oh and confidence is one thing girls absolutely love! So if tomorrow you get a comment saying they heard you daydream about her or she walks up to you I want you to have the confidence to say hey I was man enough to admit that I have feelings and add a joke in there too to boost your confidence. Make sure you add the joke! good luck you'll do fine trust me it's not the end of the world. Also start taking care of yourself like hygiene and clean haircuts to attract girls and I bet those other two will even come running back to you. Don't sweat it you got this!