I recently got engaged. My fiance and I have lived together for several years. One night he fell asleep before me, and I went to set his alarm on his phone for him. I saw that he had been texting another girl, and had asked for a pic of her stomach, she asked wouldn’t that make him a bad boyfriend, to which he said “being bad is more fun”. I confront him, he says that they’re just friends, and had been talking about their fitness programs, and what ab workouts they did (thus the stomach picture). He claims that the “being bad is more fun” comment was just a joke, and he didn’t think of how wrong it could be taken. In his defense, I’ve known him for 7 years, and he is the type to be awkwardly inappropriate without realizing it. He’s the guy in the group who makes a joke that you don’t know whether to laugh or cringe about. HOWEVER…even if he’s telling the truth and meant nothing by it, how can he not realize that that’s wildly inappropriate for someone who’s about to be married?? What should I do in this situation? At worst he’s lying and cheating, at best he’s thoughtless and inappropriate. Is that worth ending an engagement over?