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To much sex ?

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So I have been dating my boyfriend for a short while ( 4 months ) and over those four months we’ve gotten to know each other well seeing that we’ve been around each other everyday of those 4 months. But I look back on those four months whenever we are around each other we do something freaky. I mean we haven’t had sex but he loves touching and feeling. Then we both get aroused by the stimulation and end up giving each other hand jobs. Then when we’re on the phone all we can talk about is sex and if not we talk about how we’re gonna have kids. Is this bad ? But before you go and comment he does tell me that it seems like he’s using me but he loves me and blah blah. Like he ensures me that Im his all and everything. Like I said is this a bad sign or something.

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It's only natural that in our mid/late teens we feel a very strong urge to explore everything sexual. And in no way is it bad and repressing it might lead to various complications. But if we're talking relationship vise, giving in in an early stage of the relationship or giving in because your partner is pressuring you is never a good sign. A sexual act might make the relationship blossom to new levels but for many young males, satisfying their sexual urges is all there is to a relationship.
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This isn't a bad thing, but if I were you, I would try to take things slow. I know that four months may seem like a long time but honestly it isn't. You could try having a few days to yourself without him being around and just pamper yourself and try to work things out in your mind to set out what this relationship is in your mind. Also, you could talk with him about where you want this relationship to go and what boundaries you have set.
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You enjoy each other's company, talk sweet nothings on the phone and share mutual masturbation because you haven't decided to have sex. I'm not seeing anything wrong here.
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