Someone needs to tell me everything will be okay.

EVERYTHING. WILL. BE. OKAY. it will. it will. everything will be just fine.

I can completely understand why you would feel like this. I would too feel the same in your situation, but I'll try my best to help you. With the legal troubles, they seem to be terrorizing you. When illegal activities occur, do they occur in one person's room, or a family room? If they occur in one person's room, then you probably won't be as "responsible" for the crimes they commit. And if the police do find you, and you're put in cuffs, you aren't necessarily in trouble, you can find a lawyer and tell them the story, and they can help you testify. Since you know about the situation, try doing everything in your power to stop it. Actively explain to them that you're afraid of getting in trouble, and that they shouldn't be acting like this and putting you in trouble. If they're respectable human beings, they would acknowledge your request, and try to stop their behavior, or do it in a way that's less dangerous for you. If they don't do anything, or they do it more in spite of you, call the police and get them in trouble, because in that case, it would be clear that they're inconsiderate, and they should be punished for their actions. You can try to testify against them. If it feels like you're betraying them, then remind yourself that they're betraying you by not listening. Tell them next time you'll call the cops, and next time they do, then call the cops. Hopefully this helped

life is very unfair-so cheesy i know. but your boyfriend should never give up on you! and your not wasting our time! maybe find a help group or something that will help you through all of this. maybe your doing something wrong in an interview and ask them what you did wrong so you can fix it next time. all you need to do is keep trying. and if music doesnt help anymore than maybe writing will help you. or even creating your own music. pick up and instrument even an old instument in the dump. or just sing. singing always helps me. create a new you cut your hair dye it get into new activities like art or drama or reading or even a sport. it will get you involved with more people and boost your confidence and it will show your boyfriend that you do have the will power to change. and it will mean more time out of the house. never get involved in what they are doing because then youll be pretty much a hypocrite. getting involved with social activities and joining clubs and doing some sort of competition that you are good at can boost your confidence a ton!! if you ever need more advice add me on facebook and message me: Emma Highland, Irvine California

Hello there, you did the right thing in reaching out.

So, you're the reason I couldn't have the name AbsoluteZero. I would have my epic revenge, but it seems you have more important things going on in your life than a passing stranger caps-locking you over some letters on a website, so let's look at that instead.

Heavens, you have got it rough. You need a hug and I would bitterly love to give it to you. I can see why you would choose the name Absolute Zero; you feel beaten down so far that bedrock may as well be the sky for you. I have been in a similar situation, but this is not about me, it is about you.

Your problems are so many, and it seems like your options are so few, but there is always a solution. I promise.

Find your nearest goodwill and speak to the people in charge, tell them that you need to look professional for a job. They should help you. Next step is to make a fantastic resume, and there are literally hundreds of helpful how-tos to be found with a simple google search, but for your benefit, I have one right here: http://rockportinstitute.com/resumes/

It will take a little time, but with your look and presentation down, you need to move on to your behavior. Practice, practice, practice interviews. There are SO many sources of interview help to be found on Google, and here is a beginner: http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/fa/f1/b4/faf1b4a1ccece72f2806b00d7be416a6.jpg

Now that you're a lean, mean, smooth-talking interview machine, you are ready to waltz into a workplace like you already own it.

After you master these tips and get a job (and you will because you are awesome and attractive), you're going to have the great idea of opening a(n) (e-banking, since they sometimes have zero maintenance fees, ask for that by the way) bank account and arranging direct-deposit for your paycheck. You are ready to begin the long, hard grind out of the gutter.

You are going to succeed, because you are stronger than you know. You are going to have a more fulfilling life, because you are not going to give up. You know that you are better than this, and so you are going to BE better than this, and you're going to do just fine. Do you know why?

Because everything is going to be okay.

Please keep in contact and update us on how things are going. Never forget that you matter, and you are not alone.