So there’s this guy…

Ah, the traditional question starter. So, I really like him, and everyone is saying that either we’re a great couple, he likes me, I like him, or we’re dating. So, the general public seems to approve of us dating. However, he doesn’t seem to be the kind of person who’s all that into dating, so I’m not sure whether or not to ask him if he likes me. help? (P.S. Gender isn’t an issue, we’re oppisite genders. Nothing against homosexuals though! I’m pan-sexual myself)

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Anonymous

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I would like to tell you how much I appreciate the gender disclosure. Constantly I make an fool out of myself for assuming. But, as for the guy. I'd just open up the communication. Ask him how he feels about dating and where you're at. It's time for "the talk" where is this relationship headed? Don't mistake this as a one time talk. My husband and I still have the talk all the time - what are we doing where are we going? communication is crucial.

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Swifting

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You know that old saying... "you never know till you try." If you don't feel like waiting and seeing where it goes, you can always make the first move. Sometimes shy quiet nice guys need a little push. Although if you do this, there is a chance that he will say no. So you have to think to yourself if it is a risk worth taking. If it is, than take the leap!

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daddysgirl

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I'm a little confused why you included that gender isn't an issue, unless you told me that you were both the same gender, I just assumed that lol. But anyways, yeah! Go for it! It won't hurt to try!

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rayman1030

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