Should I tell my boyfriend I’m going to the US Army?

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We been together for 3 months. So I dont know if he will care or not? ~ my decision on going it’s just me. I’m just worried how he will take the news idk maybe he will be mad that i didnt tell him soon enough or understand and respect my decisions. I just hope he is understanding about it but his react isn’t my approval at all.

Category: Tags: asked May 12, 2014

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He has to know. Not because he has the power to change your decision but he has to be able to have the time and process if he can make long distance work. The military life is a hard one and it's not for everyone. He deserves the time to make the informed decision.
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You should tell him, not for his opinion, but just so he knows. It doesn't matter if you two haven't been together for very long, just let him understand what you have decided to do in your life. That's a very brave decision you have made and I thank you for your future service. =)
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Wow...RunawaySpirit. That's exactly how I feel, yet I could not have worded my response as perfectly as you did. Am I cheating if I post, "Ditto"?