Should I stay with my boyfriend?

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First off I’m gay. I’ve been in a relationship now for about 10 months. We met and actually had a great time together at the beginning. But then things started moving way too fast and before you know it, he moved his entire life around to be with me. And it kind of freaked me out but I stayed on. He constantly wants to have our relationship publicly out in the open. But I don’t want that. And that has caused quite a strain on our relationship. It causes us to have fights pretty much every 2 weeks. And every time he says he’ll be lenient. Then, the next time were out in public, he’ll try to hold my hand and I’ll pull away and then he’ll be upset at me and we’ll fight when we get home. What should I do?

Category: Tags: asked March 10, 2014

2 Answers

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first you need to ask yourself if you love your boyfriend. if you do then you can make things work. relationships are all about sacrificing and making each other happy. id say before you think of leaving try to make things work.
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It is a rule of thumb to not blame the victim, but in this case your boyfriend has every right to be offended.

That man loves you, and when you rebuke him in public, it is like your love is some kind of dirty secret, like you feel that there is something wrong with it. Your behavior is telling your boyfriend that there is something wrong with him as well, because he is like you and he wants to bring a side of you out that you're keeping under wraps.

Human rights are sweeping the globe, and now is the best time in history for gays to come out. I came out as bisexual, myself. You're going to be hard-pressed to find another man who WANTS to stay in and hide the relationship.

At the very best, you owe yourself and your boyfriend an apology for letting your fears get the best of you. Don't you dare let outdated bigotry shame or scare you into keeping who you are a secret. You take your boyfriend's hand, stand tall, let yourself be proud of who you are and be stronger than the ignorance that has persecuted gays for so many generations.

Be gay, be proud, and never be afraid to live your life, because you matter, and you are not alone.