Should I enter a relationship with a potential jerkoff?

LOL @ (Squee) truth be told I don't believe in going by what people say but if everyone says the same thing then you should take some precautionary measure. The decision is yours but on the other hand you shouldn't get your hope like ridiculously high. If you do decide to date him just know you should leave room for disappointment. If you decide to go into it don't go with a whole heart just moniter him and see how it goes. And KEEP your viginity don't give it to ANYONE until you're sure theyre the right one for you! Don't let no one fool you into giving it up quickly either. If he isn't what they say he is then whether you have sex or not wouldn't be an issue! #BeSafe #GoodLuck

This is honestly upto and entirely your choice. Perhaps you'd like to give him a chance so you can judge for yourself, you don't have to have sex with him or get intimate with him at all maybe you could just date him to find out if he'd be a good boyfriend match for you. Maybe you could ask him about his last girlfriend, I'm sure he wouldn't particularly mind talking about her if you just want to find out why things didn't work from his point of view. He could seem like a really nice guy but then turn out to be an awful boyfriend but there's no need to jump the gun, you should just take things nice and steady at your own pace then you'll be able to decide if he's right for you. Hope it all works out!

It is counterproductive to date someone you KNOW to be insensitive and pushy, and it is naive to think the same thing won't happen to you.

If you want to compromise. you could go out with him AND when you are somewhat close, ask him what's his favorite Twilight movie and then where does he stand on sex and relationships.

This may seem old fashioned, but I believe its pretty pointless to go dating someone unless you are ready to be in a full blown relationship- sex, marriage, etc. If you really are into this guy and are still set on dating him the best thing you can do for yourself is be upfront with what type of relationship you are looking for, in your case that would be nothing more than friends. You're only cheating yourself if you start dating now because you're getting on an emotional roller coaster for no reason.

Don't let what people say, outweigh your feelings, but don't let your feelings for him outweigh your desire to be true to yourself, in this case it would probably be keeping your virginity. Give it a try if you're willing to take the gamble *just like all relationships*, if not then don't even bother regretting it because it was all your choice so stick with it and be proud, don't worry about what it could have been, focus on what your next chance could be.