she said it’s too soon.

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OK so I asked this girl out last night and all night I was waiting for a response..well I got one but this was it

“To be completely honest it is a little weird, ’cause two days of knowing someone isn’t really enough time to judge how you feel about them, so staying friends is probably the best answer :)

now I’m not hurt or anything but here’s the weird part

she said 2 days right?….wrong

I’ve talked to her for 4 days..now I know yeah it’s not a big deal but still I’m like ehhh I’ve talked to you more then 2 lol anyway

I really do Like this girl but I would like to know….when is it a good time to try again? I wanna be her friend now. I know I asked WAY too early but my friends where peer pressuring me to tell her…I know there trying to help but god! XD

soo yeah…when will it be a good time to try again?

Category: asked November 11, 2013

2 Answers

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Okay, I have personal experience at being a girl :) lol. I know that if I a guy asked me out and I had known him for less than a week, I definitely wouldn't feel comfortable going out with him. Maybe this is just for me, but I know that most girls want to feel comfortable and safe around a guy before dating him. I would get to know her a little first. Wait a couple weeks, and then ask her out again. There's all this BS about the "friend-zone", but the thing is, you only get in the friend zone if you want to, and girls don't intentionally friend-zone guys. The problem with you is that since you already asked her out so early, she might start feeling kind of awkward around you and not want to date. In the next few weeks, act like a "boyfriend" anyways - do some fun stuff with her, be a gentleman... and when you feel like good friends, but not TOO good, ask her out :) Hope I helped!
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Well first off, I admire your courage to just ask. But also, it was wrong to rush it and do it because your friends were pressuring you. And generally, girls would be a little reluctant to go out with guys they know for only a short period. My advice is to be her friend, and get to know her better. You can even try inviting her out to just hang out...not a "date-date"... Just regular friend stuff. And maybe by the end of the month, depending on how close you've gotten, you can ask her out on a real date. Who knows, she might even ask you out :) all the best!!