sex/dating advice

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I met this girl (i am also a girl) and she is so funny and attractive and she is sweet to me and i’ve never been so comfortable with someone so quick.
I know she’s had a lot of friends she makes out with and seems a lot more sexual than me (i’ve only been with one person and that person did not like to be touched AT ALL so i’ve never done anything to anyone else)
we’ve only been hanging out for a couple of weeks and last night i stayed the night and normally i really hate my body so i’m hesitant and the one person i was with, i dated for 3 years. But something about this girl, i just went with it and at first i felt bad because i was terrified to try anything on her because i never had before. later she kind of coached me along and i did some but i felt like i was really awful. She didn’t sound like i was or say i was and nothing really changed afterwards but i’m afraid because i don’t know what i’m doing and i really want this to lead somewhere because she makes me happy and sex matters to me so if it ended up not mattering to her i’d be hurt.

So i need to know some good tips on sex and i need to know how to tell her i would like this to lead to a relationship and be the only person she’s talking to and whether or not that’s appropriate for only having hungout a handful of times?

Category: Tags: asked June 20, 2014

4 Answers

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Communication and confidence. Those are the only tips and tricks any single person in the entire world. Talk to the new fling. Ask her what you did well. What you didn't do so well on. If you're ready to be experimenting and having sex you're ready to talk about it and learn how to do it right. Just open up to her. Before you know it you'll both be happier in bed and in your relationship.
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Just open up to her communication is the key to a healthy n happy relationship get to know her opinion and tell her all what u have in mind . Don't be scared being open is a turn on .
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Sounds like you just need a small boost of confidence. Gurllll, that's all it's about! Definitely get some foreplay going before you dive into the deep stuff. You can start with a good makeout session, body rubbing, or anything that feels best for you. BE CONFIDENT. That's the biggest factor. In order for you to feel comfortable, you have to feel comfortable with yourself first. I know this might be a little mainstream but if you want some visual aids, type in girl on girl gifs on tumblr, or go to porn website to look at some foreplay techniques. You can also feed off of their energy! Not everything in porn is realistic, but it will give you a sense of what you like, how you like it, and it will make you slightly more knowledgable. You can do it! Just feel comfortable. Let all of the insecurities drain out of you :)
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Communication is key. Discuss what eachother's boundaries. While you're fucking ask if she's enjoying it and if there's anything in particular that she likes. All bodies are different and different things get people to orgasm. These conversations may feel awkward to begin but it has become normal to me with lovers because I do want to please them and it's hot to know for sure that they are into it!