So, my boyfriend and I are going through our worst fight to date. Essentially, he cancelled on me twice when I needed him most and I got angry which got him angry. He’s going through university exams right now and he doesn’t want to talk to me until the end of the week, in which I’m respecting his wishes because he is obviously stressed stressed stressed!
After this, I want to have a serious talk with him, to establish whats going on and ultimately fix it. At the end of the week, I’m going to send him an email describing that he has to write dot-points on what he wants to discuss based on a few topics. When this is done, we will meet up and have a conversation to get us back on the right page and resolve any issues. The dot-points are to help us not to forget anything we want to discuss.
So far, the topics I have are “fight, communication, sex, money, emotions, what I need from you, future”. I feel like I’m missing some key things.
What am I missing? How do I approach this need for a conversation? Is this the right thing to do?
Thank you