Relationship trouble…

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So, my girlfriend kind of broke up with me on Christmas. She said it’s a break… so that means she’ll come back soon I hope. I just don’t know how to deal with this right now. I feel like she really doesn’t care about me sometimes, and other times I feel like she does.

Some of my friends have told me to break up with her, but I don’t want to lose her. She is the most important thing in my life, I don’t know what to do without her. I’m just so tired of laying around here. She moves on pretty quick apparently, since yesterday she hung out with this guy that likes her. She said it wasn’t a date… but it still hurts.

I don’t know what to do with myself though. I haven’t had proper sleep since this happened. I don’t really have friends, and if I talk to someone I feel like I would get annoying really quick. Ugh, I’ve got a problem. Help… please?

Category: Tags: asked December 27, 2013

4 Answers

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Oh dear. :( Well my recommendation is talking to her about the conditions of the break. That way you can feel more constructive within the newly found time and space you have, rather than just feel like you're left out in the open. That way you're also getting her to think twice about what she's done so quickly, without being accusing. Hope this helps!
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Trust me on this...IT WILL PASS!!! It will...it takes time, i'm not going to lie to you and it may SEEM like forever...but eventually, you WILL find yourself smiling again. Don't lay around and think...that is the WORST thing you can do because you begin to dwell. Remember, there are 5 Stages to Grief...Anger, Denial, Depression, Bargaining and Acceptance. They aren't always in that order but that's what we go through...so keep that in mind. It gets better...it really does. :-) Just try and imagine the girl that is waiting out there for you that WON'T want to take a break. That will want to be with you ... she's out there, don't waste your time on someone that doesn't deserve your time!!
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id be completely honest with her and then try to move on, i know its hard but distract yourself! its the key. i am going through a breakup as well and i know its hard but its possible to get through it. its part of life.
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My boyfriend called for a break as well, in November; however he did the same exact thing last year. He ended up getting a new girlfriend right away (both times). I was completely devastated. Try not to overthink everything, and don't constantly think of her (I know this will be hard, but it makes it easier...for the most part). Hopefully though, unlike with my situation, she will come back to you soon and you will both be even happier than before.