My boyfriend and i have been together for just over a year but knew each other briefly years ago. He was in jail for 4 years and our relationship began only a few months after he got out. We saw each other a few times and began talking and hit it off immediately and it just developed from there. He is a self admitted player…held seriously relationships in the past but always played around and cheated. we’ve never had this problem directly but have been talking recently. He regrets not playing the field as he put it when he first got out but dosent regret me or our relationship. he says he knows he wants to be with me but thinks he should have gotten over his urge to basically screw other girls before settling down with me. I can only think of letting him go to find what he needs to find in life but i dont honestly know what else to do. i honestly dont know if i can let him leave me to just mess around and then us get back together. any advice on what i could do? i mean this man has said he wants to marry me since early on but at the same time he isnt ready for that, but im not willing to just sit and wait around. its difficult….im very very much in love with him. im just so lost