need other people to talk to

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I am a victium of sexual abuse… I was molested for 5 years and iv been talk to people and they are saying I should talk to other people who have gone through the simular thing so here I am im really easy to talk to and I just want To move on From my past and need help……. talk to me about how you coped and made it though your experiance

Category: asked March 5, 2014

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I'm sorry to hear what you've been through. I can't imagine what it's like. I haven't been in that situation. I just wanted to tell you to search the groups here on Blahtherapy. I know there are groups dedicated to sexual assault/abuse survivors and I think you have a lot more chance finding people there. Not as many people look at this 'Q-n-A' page as much as the forums, and once your questions if off the front page, not many people will see it. People actively search through the forums though, and it's easy for people to see what you want to talk about (for example, I had no idea what your question was about until I clicked it, but by posting in a sexual assault survivors group, it will show that you posted it in there on the forums, therefore let people know that's the topic of your thread, even if you decide not to put details in the title). Let me know if you need any help with this. :)
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Hi! I'm really sorry to hear that you've had to deal with that. I'm 16 right now and my grandpa did things to me starting when I was around 10 until I was around 15. When I was younger I obviously had no idea what was going on...it was just weird...but I learned and became much more withdrawn the older I got. Sometime after my 15th birthday I was with my grandpa alone and we started again. I threatened him with knife and told him I'd mess him up pretty bad and let my grandma know if he didn't stop. Needless to say...he stopped. My family has no idea though. They only know of the rape of when I was 8. Anyways I was able to make friends and stayed pretty close to them. I guess it was more distractive to where I was able to cope better. I never talked about it with them, I just tried my hardest to live a normal life and make it happen. I recommend you find yourself someone you can talk to easily and makes you pretty happy when your around them that you can confine on and trust. Having close friends I could trust has helped me a lot over the years. I only told my best friend about it sometime in January...but...best of luck in your recovery!