My mom is so delusional and fucked up, and this is agreed upon by entire family(the whole tree), I want to help her so bad because I love her so much, she’s made life hell from time to time, but still, I do love her. She’s just spiralling into this whirlpool of self derogation and deriving anything against her from everything…and the weird thing is she speaks highly of her self, I’m so confused..she gets these volcanic eruptions where she finds any one thing and thing starts shouting for hours about it…I know she’s not crazy and their must be some issue at the root of this problem…but I just can’t figure it out.
I have a good relationship with her and always hug and kiss her goodnight and ask her about her day, sometimes massage her and I swear my dad also behaves nicely, he has amazing tolerance levels (towards her) and only loses himself like once in 3-4 months (yes , that is amazing, that’s how frustrating my mum can be). I’m in my late teens so I can’t really just give her advice (I’ve tried to open up with her but that didn’t go well). She just finds any irrelevant and twisted theory to justify that we all are against her.
Please help me understand this behaviour, any link will also be helpful.
Thank you so much for your time. Any help is aprreciated.