My mother has never really liked white people in the first place (we’re not white) and well, due to some incidents she has become not really racist but quite hateful of whites and Im frustrated at that because it’s wrong. People are allowed to have preferences but she shouldn’t hate white people because of something that may cause pain to her. She often points out that ‘this person is stupid because they’re white’ or something or other, it’s annoying, frustrating and I want to understand and listen but I can’t. Any help?