My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I had sex with one guy before I met him, my husband was a virgin when we got married. He has no clue what is going on, or how to do anything. I try to take charge and teach him, but he either calls me bossy or gets irritated. We have stopped having sex or being intimate all together. I’ve attempted to give him how-to sex books, but he doesn’t seem to be reading them. Any ideas on what to do?