My friend is very curt towards me and she often ignores me. She also is never there for me when I need her to be–even though I’m always there for her. She says I mean a lot to her but never reaches out to me. When I talk to her she seems disinterested or annoyed. Though she says and does all these things I still somehow enjoy her company. It’s almost like no matter what she does to me, I will never be truly upset with her. I feel like I almost idolize her. How do I stop?
If you really want to stop being friends with her, find new friends! Find people who accept you for you and are there for you when you need someone to talk to. Lots of other people would be ecstatic to be your friend, and this girl is just bringing you down.. Don't unfriend her directly, just slowly cut off contact with her. If she decides to come to her senses and has a good reason to be treating you this way, then it's up to you if you want to continue the relationship with her- but in the meantime find people who make you happy and let you excel in your life! c: Message me if you want to talk more about it, friend.