Moving on isn’t working

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I’ve been single for over 90 days. I haven’t let go but every fibre of my being is telling me to stop loving my Ex, to let her go, to forget her to move on, but I haven’t. I can’t. I’m falling apart. I absolutely hate her, I can’t stand what she’s become and what she’s done in recent months, but I still beg for her when I go to sleep, beg for her to wake up with me and hold me. I’m too attached to what she was and the 5 1/2 years of true love I had with her. I’m so f!cked up in the heart. And all I’m doing is stewing in my bedroom every day cause that all I can ever do. I have no friends. No one wants to be interested in me.

I beg for her love to come back, but I hate her so much! I want to hurt her,..but I’d break down and cry if I ever saw her again. I have no idea how to handle this.

Category: Tags: asked January 18, 2014

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id say use distractions, go on a hike or a run, play music, write, take a bath, light a candle, read a book, smoke some pot (it can be very opening and awakening), do art, read, meditate, listen to music, volunteer somewhere, talk to a friend, spend time with a fun sibling, take a shower, etc! there are many ways to change your thought process. just be committed to happiness and it will come to you! Go out where you will make some new different friends, theres all kinds of options. you first must open yourself up to them.
I know that it is hard i am going through the same thing. it has been almost 4 months since i broke up with my girlfriend and i am having a very difficult time with it. sometimes. But really it has gotten so so soo much easier then when i broke up with her, and every day i let a little more go. I feel better each day, and see more and more opportunities. i know its hard, but hang in there, i know everyone says this, but time heals best.