I live in a really nice house with one other woman. I am only 20, in college, finding myself and wanting to explore life, and she is 25 married, with a career and no social life. her husband is deployed, so hes never here, which is great cause he is terrifying. The house is great, only 20 minutes from campus and only $400 rent.
I like my roommate well enough, but she is a bit of a lonely cat lady, and its a bit depressing. Ill come home from a long day and find myself making a beeline for my room and staying there all evening cause she just talks incessantly about the same things all the time.
she says Im welcome to have people over, but than shes weird about it and the house is a bit out of the way for my friends anyway. and her husband and family scares the hell out of me, so Im miserable when her family comes over (they have no boundaries), or when her husband is home on leave.
I sort of want to move, so that I can be closer to friends and in a more college student prone area of the city (the neighborhood I live in is a bunch of antisocial rich people, and about 15 minutes from stores and stuff) but I dont know if I can justify moving.
Im not going to be able to find such a nice place for the same price, and I dont know if I will like any other roommate any better.
I should love this place, but im a bit unhappy here. I have classy adult tastes and standards that I wont find living with other college students my age.
should I move? or am I just looking for problems where there are none?