Methods and Tips to not being alone.

Honestly I know exactly what you're going through. I was in a long distance relationship for 5 years and he broke my heart then when I gave a chance on love again 2 years later on someone closer after 7 months I found out he's been lying to me the entire time. Needless to say NO more online dating for me lol. I've lived with depression, anxiety, self loathing and everywhere in between my entire life. Only in the past year or so have I started to figure things out.My advice would be to take baby steps and to focus on YOU. Put girls and relationships furthest from your mind. Try to focus on your hope and dreams and if you don't have any try to come up with some. Do the things that make you happy. Don't dwell on the negative and the people that hurt you. Whenever you feel yourself going towards those darker thoughts take a deep breath and remind yourself that you're worth it. That there is someone out there waiting for you that will love you and cherish you the way you deserve, and all you have to do is be patient and learn to love yourself first and everything else will fall into place.It'll be a long hard road ahead but you can and will get through it. I have faith in you! Try to take a few minutes or even seconds EVERY DAY to encourage yourself no matter whether it's just to motivate yourself to get out of bed. Most importantly remember that YOU ARE NOT ALONE. EVER. I'm sure there's a lot more I wanted to mention but couldn't find the words to but I hope it helps even a little. As for friends go well you already have one right here :) feel free to message me anytime I'm always willing to listen no matter what it's about.Alright I'm going to stop talking so much now lol but I have one more thing to say.The most important thing of all.NEVER give up hope and NEVER give up on yourself.

Answer...-> You have to continue giving what you want. You want love? Give love. Be a loving person. It's true that if you want to know what love is you have to first start loving yourself because we can see every single flaw we have that others can't so if we can really get to love ourselves the healthy way we can also learn to love others. I can't really tell you how to get such a person that would be with you through rough and good because those people are kind of hard to find. The good thing is such people "do exist" and you would hopefully get to meet more of such people. To find the reason to live your life again an love life is to understand what you life is about. You don't live life for a girl you are in love with or to enjoy the property you have lets say, you live life for a reason and a purpose and your task is to find out what your purpose is because when you do and you work inline with it, you would feel more fulfilled. Things might not be perfect but you'd have the assurance that you are on the right track. How do you meet people who would like you...hmm you can meet people just about anywhere. The thing is it's nice to meet people in places you like to hang around. Ex. If you like to read books a lot the library is a place where lots of book lovers hang around so you can meet such people there. But just live life according to your purposed and I believe people would come into your life without you even trying much. You can still try though it doesn't harm to be friendly or look for friends in the right places. If you feel someone is not good for you to be around with, don't settle because you feel lonely or else you would waste time from finding a person that 'is" good for you. Your last question is how to stop being lonely eemm that needs work. You have to find something you like doing that is capable of keeping you distracted. Ex.You like playing an instrument...what about following courses to get even better at it or you join a music club ... stuff like that can keep you occupied with something that would help you forget that you are "alone". And to find a girl that would love you, you have to be someone worth loving. If you are someone worth being loved and you also do give love to others then you'd surely find that girl at a point of your life but it would take patient. For some it takes lots of patience but for others is comes faster. Anyway that's it for today ^_^ Hope this was helpful to ya! Take care.