Love affair thingy.

Thier this boy I know . He inboxed me about having sex with him at first I was like umm no. But now that we’ve talking I kinda want to. But I don’t love him or even forreal like him. But theirs another promblem too, he has a girlfriend that has been going out since April, I don’t know what to do cause I don’t want to break up their relationship or start something with her. He seems like not to care but I do cause like I don’t wanna be titled a hoe. So any like advice or something (Can we curse on here, this has nothing to do with the story but It’s a question)

link

BaddNetta

4 Answers

3 accepted

Honestly, especially if you don't 'forreal like him' to avoid drama or complications or for YOU to even get hurt in this situation, I wouldn't go for it. You know? You could end up hurt and in turn the girl that is with that guy is going to get hurt too. (She probably will get hurt anyway because of the fact shes dating a guy who will talk to other girls like that) but do you want to be the reason she gets hurt? Any guy who who talks to you and the first thing that comes up is sex is never really a good sign. Be safe.

link

Raine

A guy which is a two timer, never a good guy, and base on your explanation hr, more or less it sounded like my ex.Base on experience, guy like this wanted to own you, not love you. He want your soul and body to fill up the lust he never get to fulfilled.. If I were you, I dump him quick.. Wished you luck dear... and yes, mild swearing could be done .. if you dint get reported by anyone you're good .. :D

link

Blackpea

180

You don't need to love or even "like" someone to have sex with him/her. Forget what religions say about sex, it's a normal human need and humans along with dolphins are the two species that can have sex for recreational purposes only too.Also you will not be a hoe if you have sex with him, hoe, slut and other similar words are social constructs to serve the purpose of shaming/stigmatising women who would have premarital sex (again religion) or keeping them faithful to their husbands (who were unable to satisfy them).

link

Chris

1,067

Honestly, what I like about this post is the fact that you are aware of the consequences and you actually care about the outcomes. Personally, I think that you need to tell him no. I think for the moral fact that he sounds like a jerk. If you were to sleep with him that is bad karma. Maybe if he had real feelings for you then it would be a whole new situation. However, you don't know how many other girls he is messaging the same stuff he is messaging you.Youre best bet is to let that one slide on by. Youre too good for that.

link

becausemeagan

471