Jealousy taking over

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My boyfriend has two weeks left before he leaves for sea for 6 months . we have on been together for 4 months he’ll be gone longer than we’ve been together. he’s been spending more time with his friend than with me these past two days and its driving me crazy because i hate his best friend I think he’s a bad influence. I get so mad that i just take my anger all out on my boyfriend when he hasn’t really done anything wrong. I just cant help but get overly jealous when he spends time with other people idk how to control it

Tags: asked April 27, 2013

3 Answers

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It's going to push him away if you continue you that. Talk to him about how you feel it is honestly the best thing to do. Apologize when you're wrong too. Let him know how you feel and if he can't comply or at least compromise then you're better off without him, but you should keep an open mind as well, it is his best friend.
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Well; welcome to the military life style. I'm an army wife so I know exactly what it's like. I can honestly say that while being a part it might be hard it could very well be worth it. He's going to do a lot of growing being at sea. There are going to be a lot of bad influences in his life. The important thing is that you notice and watch that he doesn't lose the good parts and his individuality. You have to know that he's known his best friend for years and yet he's still a good person that you seem to get along with. Unfortunately he is a separate human being and he does need to spend time with his friends. Maybe instead of yelling at him you have a discussion about trying to make a schedule until he leaves so that you can maximize you're time with him. But, just remember that while he is leaving. You are going to have time to talk to him and communicate.
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Find something to do. The last thing you want is your boyfriend to find you controlling and break up with you. Find a hobby, find a show, find a friend to keep your mind off of it. I don't think it's bad to tell him you want time to hang out with him and that's why you've been a little bitchy but definitely don't tell him you don't want him hanging out with his friend. The bro's before hoe's policy is still going hard and strong.