I apologize if I made it sound like I was speaking about myself, but in fact I was talking about my husband asking the question. He wanted to know my opinion and I was just making sure that my feelings were somewhat mutual among others. I appreciate everyone's answer though I agree with most, I to believe that it's classified as cheating if you have to converse with one deal WebCam for sexual needs. Especially if you're doing it on a regular basis. Once again sorry for the misunderstanding, and I appreciate everyone's honesty........