Is there something wrong with me ?

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I use to be really confident and feel on top. But once I hit puberty my self esteem has plummeted. I feel like no one wants me and isn’t even willing to give me a chance. Everyone in my whole entire life that I’ve liked hasn’t liked me back. I don’t think I’m the ugliest girl ever. I know I’m not perfect but it feels like theres no one out there who’s even willing to get past my flaws. I always get comments like ‘oh you’re body is so nice though’ and what people don’t understand is like yes I have a nice body but why can’t anyone like my personality or facial features. I want people to call me beautiful instead of sexy.
I find myself always rejecting peoples compliments because I feel like they’re always just lying because they see how insecure I am and want to ‘make me feel better’.
A boy I liked a few years back actually told me recently that he liked me. he also said he didn’t want to date me but would’ve hooked up with me. Those are the type of things I don’t like hearing. It makes me feel disposable and like I’m not worthy. I feel like I’m always that girl that a guy would fuck but wouldn’t date and thats just not a good feeling.

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I'm not sure how old you are but after puberty a lot of people kind of lose themselves. A lot of things change and you get confused. It takes time to learn who you are and where you fit in the world. Keep in mind that boys mature slower than girls so you just have to wait for them to catch up to your maturity level. Some boys never get over that immature state of mind.In the long run most people don't find the perfect person to spend their life right away. It takes time and people make mistakes. Don't let yourself be used. Those boys that say they just want to hook up don't deserve your time. Wait and be patient. Enjoy your life and discovering who you are. Later in your life you will find someone that compliments you personality. Someone who brings out the best in you and makes you happy.To sum this all up wait for someone who makes you feel like a queen. Someone who makes you feel like the only girl in the world and that you are beautiful and cherished.Be happy! Be you! You. Are. Beautiful.If you want to talk about this more feel free to message me! I'll be happy to talk to you. Stay strong.Hannah