I am 22 years old and I fantasize about having sex with a married man, and have been extremely close in to letting him know how I feel, but I would not wont a married man to cheat on his wife, Is that weird to feel that way?
it's normal but be careful about the limit between dream and reality. since you said that you don't want that he cheats on his wife, don't try to make this dream be realised!
There is nothing weird about the feelings, but those sorts of feelings can be dangerous because they can persuade you to do things that will hurt lots of people. Just be aware that these feelings may be temporary so don't be in haste to act on them. Even if they don't go away, it would be a bad idea to let them tempt you into a situation where a man might cheat on his wife.
Maybe when the feelings are strong, find something to distract yourself with until they go away. Just make sure you don't give in to them.
No, it's not weird. We all get tempted sometimes. And it's very easy to fantasize about certain things we really wouldn't want in the long run. However, I would try to find a way to stop entertaining such thoughts since you don't truly want to act on them.
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