Is it bad that I prefer this than that??

I just can’t talk to girl although I am one and my #1 good friend is. Other than her, I can’t talk to any other girl. I don’t get nervous or anything…. it just bugs me. And I am not afraid of them either. I just…. when I talk to one it’s as if they are lying. When they don’t and I’m talking to them it just feels like they are lying. Yes I know not all girls are liars and I know some girls might be like me and in the same position and what-not, but it’s as if my whole body tell me not to trust them. And yes I do know not all boys are trustful either, I’m not sure how to explain it any more.

Category: Society & Culture Tags: what should I do? why am I like this asked February 21, 2015

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Mireya N. M.

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If you want to make new friends you have to trust them at least until they give you a reason not to. If you don't want to make new friends, though, and are content with the ones you have, then it's okay that you don't trust them. Honestly girls tick me off, and you don't have to like anyone, and you don't have to have a reason. But in retrospect, would you want someone to not trust you just because of your gender?

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.Anna

It takes time to build trust with someone. You could talk about things that don't require trust. Easy things like talking about school, the weather,... For topics like that, trust is insignificant. Take some time to get to know some people. Give them a chance to see if they're worthy of your trust.

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Rain

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Thanks Anna.... I guess I didn't look at in that point of view, I didn't mean it offencive. And Silent Rain I love your advice but it's not so much of trust them as of like not comfortable.

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Mireya N. M.