If you’re in a relationship with someone, and they want to have sex and you don’t, so you say ‘no’ or ‘not now’ or whatever, and they bug, and nag, and be moody, and nasty and all that until you feel bad enough to just say yes to make it stop, is that some kind of abuse?
Honestly this question has been bugging me for a long time, and I’ve got to the point where I’ve convinced myself I’m being stupid and exaggerating things and twisting things. I really don’t know what to think of the situation.