Is it that bad to have control over people and life itself? I have manipulation and lying as a habit and use it on a daily basis to have control over my life and get what I want/need. Does this make me a horrible person?
I am asking this question to know what other people think. When I ‘manipulate’ people or tell lies, I am not intending to hurt them. I am simply trying to live like I want to, I do not hurt people, I just try to success in life, I like control and I’m good at it.
Okay, I edit this a third time already. I don’t have problems, that’s how it is when you have control. I do not manipulate relatives or people who are close to me. I have my limits. I use people to get what I want, though I control the way I use them, if I can I try to help the on the way. The only people I can hurt are those you hurt me in the past or try to now. Oh and I’m never freaking out, I am good at keeping my emotions under control too.