Love isn't about taking things, or staying because it benefits you. Love is a promise. A promise to stay. To cherish. It's a priceless token. And like all treasure, no one really knows where it comes from. It's just there all the sudden. Don't be afraid to embrace your inner beauty. Trust your SO that you are an amazing person, and stop looking for reasons to feel undermined. Remember, loving you for you is just as important as loving others.