i think my mum is cheating on my dad

i’ve noticed that my mum and dad don’t seem to love each other as much as they use to. they sleep in separate rooms, i haven’t seen them be “loving” towards one another is years and they keep making excuses when i bring it up.

i don’t know what to do, i think now i’ve actually caught my mum sleeping with another guy and i don’t know if i should confront her about it or not. i don’t want my parents to separate, and i have a little sister who’s going through a hard time right now and i don’t think she could deal with a divorce.

but i also don’t want my parents to stay together if they’re unhappy. i don’t want secrets in my family, but maybe it’s better to for the sake of my sister? either way this is eating away at me, i’m so upset i don’t know what the right thing to do is.

Category: Family Tags: cheating divorce Parents asked December 16, 2014

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Vanessa

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Sometimes parents stay together for the sake of their children. If your sister is having a hard time that might as well be one of their reasons why they still live in the same house. Your father might be aware that your mother is seeing or sleeping with another man and your father might be doing the same with another woman. These days unfortunately many couples break up or divorce. When there are children, it's more complicated. You can have a talk with your mother, just you and her. Tell her about how you feel, tell her that it's eating you. There's a possibility that your parents are not aware how you feel about this situation.

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Rain

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