I like this girl but I don’t know what to do?

Hey!
Okay so you are suuuuper infatuated with this girl and now all you need is a little push to talk to her. There are a few ways you can go about doing this.

1. Get her friend to introduce you. Since you're already talking to her friend, you might as well leverage on that and get to know her through her friend. This can be easily done by "she seems like an interesting person, mind introducing us?" Any normal person would comply, haha!

2. You have practice together, so that's an easy way to start a conversation with her. Go up to her and complain about how tiring the day was, or how excited you are for something, or even just go up and say "hey, I don't think we've spoken before."

Once you've started talking to her, just let the conversation flow. Talk about classes, practice, ask her about her interests, compliment her hair, ask her for help on something you're unsure on (could be anything), and if you're really nervous, Google conversation topics. Haha!
Remember, confidence is key!! Also, keep in mind not to ramble on about yourself, ask her questions about her, let her know you want to get to know her. Be friendly, smile, and it'll be okay. Really, the first step is to take a deeeeep breath, pop a mint (if necessary) and say hi!
All the best!! Let us know how it goes! :) If you're unsure of anything or would like me to elaborate on something, feel free to drop me a PM. I'd be happy to help. Good luck!

Bravery is difficult for everyone, and don't let anyone tell you different. If you are not experiencing Social Anxiety, which can be treated.... w/ explaining to your doctor the social anxiety is not in your control, then alprazolam, clonazopam etc.--However, Valerian is natural (& interestingly enough the main ingredient in Valium...go figure) and can be bought at walmart for example. Then the thing is to 1/calm down, 2/know ahead of time what you are going to say [writing it down first & going over it helps a lot] 3/ keep it simple 4/ remember that the energy you are personally feeling is the energy she will also feel when around you... SO, practice kind self-confidence until you have got the feeling down pat and can recreate it at will. As to what to say, "hey, let's go get a soda/coffee/ice-cream...add what you will here..." Say it as it is time to go...you are both about to leave class for example. When you finally get her to say yes (& it may well be on the 1ST try), then maintain your inner sense of the energy-mind-set you are giving off when around her. Kindness; being comfortable with silence between you; and then also asking her questions..like what her favorite movie is, does she like sports-if so what ones, etc is precisely what will allow you to not only approach her but become someone she trusts and feels she can talk with...and then after that...the "let's make this a Date night." You CAN do it!! Try confidence audio/videos or one of mine. Paul Santiisi has some great self confidence on youtube that can get you in the mindset. Or one of mine such as: STAGE ONE: "HEALING SERIES" GAINING CONTROL, CONQUERING FEAR-- MASTER TECHNIQUES! SUZANNA http://youtu.be/x3e_7IRs6Z4 Make sure you are well aware of how it feels to be confident and calm and then you can recreate that energy and others will feel it too. If it is an actual Social Anxiety, then it is as I mentioned prior. HUG!!! I BELIEVE IN YOU! ~Suzanna.

Try practicing what you are going to say in the mirror. I know it sounds super silly, but it might help.

I overthink things too. Its a little irritating because I am very paranoid. Anyways, I know how it feels. Thinking about all the things that could happen, both good and bad scenarios. But you never know what might happen so don't be so shy. There's my pep talk for you and now for the advice.You could ask one of her friends to introduce you. It never hurts to have the same friends and she would be much more comfortable with you. And the same goes for you. You two have practice together so you already see each other often enough. You just have to take the first step. Remember she's only human and she isn't going to do anything that going to hurt except say no but that's not the worst that could happen. Hope that help. Feel free to message me to talk more about it if you feel like it.

I find that confronting problems head on is the best way to deal with them. Overthinking things used to be a big problem of mine and sometimes still is. The best advice I can offer is to stop over analyzing things, go up to her and strike up a conversation. See if you two have anything in common and direct the conversation to that topic.