I am having the worst year. Everything in my life is frustrating me right now.
I recently became estranged from my father who is a raging narcissist. He basically remarried a complete stranger from a foreign country who acts like a child on Facebook, getting into arguments with other grown women. Not to mention she’s probably just using him to get into the country.
My father offered to pay my student loans when he retired, because he was going to be getting a large lump sum. Well he spent that money visiting his new wife. So he’s basically left me with a ton of debt.
I have a job, that I hate, and it pays terribly. But its the only job I’m qualified for with the degree I have. Everyday I go to work I feel like bursting into tears because I know I can’t possibly be doing a good job. I just don’t care about what I’m doing. I have to deal with a lot of children and their parents and that just doesn’t work for my personality. I want a job where I can sit alone in an office without talking to anyone.
I’m in school studying to become a neuroscientist, but I’m nowhere near finishing my studies (I’m about to finish a second bachelors degree). In the meantime I’m fucking broke. If I get sick I can’t go to the doctor and I have a lot of undiagnosed medical issues. I still need help to pay some of my bills as long as I can’t work full time. My student loans are going to kick in soon and by then I’m going to be drowning. I’m afraid at some point I’m going to have to do the “responsible” thing and either move home, or give up on my plans to get my phd and get a job that will pay better, but even with the second degree I don’t have a good chance of getting a well-paying job.
I’m so depressed and frustrated most days I feel like I wish I was dead. I don’t have suicidal thoughts, I just feel like I’d be better off dead. The only thing that seems to be really good in my life is my relationship with my boyfriend. But now because of his financial situation he might have to move away, which means I’ll be alone and miserable.
What am I supposed to do? Go broke by staying in school, or drop out and settle for a job that I hate so I can focus on earning money?