I just want to forget.

So when i started high school last year i did not expect to find someone i thought was cute on the first day. Well, a few months in i started texting him and things were getting serious. But, they weren’t as serious as i wanted.

I was hurt by him a few times but i always kept coming back. One night i was feeling shitty and i had a minor panic attack while talking to him. He asked if he needed to come and get me and i said yes so ong story short i snuck out with him (a senior) and we kissed a few times.

After that night he ignored me completely. I was always trying to talk to him but he would never answer. A few months later we start talking agin and we meet again and kiss blah blah blah. I was tired of just being someone he could play with so i asked what we were and he told me he was just being nice.

I cried for 3 days. I told myself i would never talk to him again but, i can not seem to stay away from him. I just want to forget him but i don’t know how. He always comes up and i don’t know what to do.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked August 9, 2014

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stellagohome

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Oh PLEASE GURL! He is totally not worth it. You deserve so much better than just some guy who wants a one night stand..(or maybe two). That makes me so mad that there are guys out there like that. HE IS STUPID. His cockiness just got the best of him and you are definitely happier off alone. You are FREE NOW! Go flirt with other guys! I KNOW there are better guys out there than HIM. Guys that you deserve. For now just try and keep yourself distracted. Ignore him and try to keep your distance. Try to avoid seeing him or going places he'll be. DO NOT....I SERIOUSLY MEAN DOOO NOTTT listen to slow/love songs. They tear you down and destroy your self worth and confidence. Put yourself out there. I feel the best way to move on is to find someone better. YOu got this!!

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Savannah

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First of all, good on you on realizing that hes playing around with you. Thats the first important step, acceptance. Tell yourself you deserve someone who will take you seriously! based on how it impacted you, i think when you do fall in love with someone, you take it really emotionally. Any MATURE guy would want that. Those that are willing to be committed, of course. Tell yourself he is not your loss. Girl, youre crying over some jerk who doesnt deserve your tears! Save those tears for someone who loves you not with some worthless guy who doesnt know how to love and care for a girl. im telling you, he is not a keeper..you can do it!as for what to do, ignore him. prove him wrong. he likes to feed his ego from knowing that you cant resist him.

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mangoisthebest

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You've said it yourself; you're tired of him using and playing with you. This realization will help you get through this (and over him) because you've acknowledged that his behaviour is wrong. The next thing you need to do is acknowledge that you can do better, and that you deserve better. Of course it will be hard, but give yourself the satisfaction of respect. It will take time but you can get through it!

Of course everyone has different ways of getting over someone. However, the best way for me to get over someone who does not feel the same way as I do is to cut them out. With this guy, he obviously is not treating you with the respect you deserve. I'm not telling you to cut him out completely, just enough to give yourself the time to get over the situation. Tell him you need space. If he's a decent person, he should understand.

Stay strong. Cheers!

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alabasterdaisies

don't forget him. then you can't forget the pain he has caused you all those times, when you think of him think of the pain it has caused you and remember that you do not need someone in you life like that and you can do better by far. even thought the pain hurts you, you have to learn from that pain to better yourself in the years to come. its a mistake you can not make agian and hopfully you never will

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