I hate all my friends?

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Just recently I realized I actually hate basically all of my friends. Just the thought of them irritates me and I think about what they are like. IT’S AGGRAVATING. Due to this I shall have to pretend I like them to avoid having no one at all and being perceived as a huge loner (This is not good for a person in high school) I need advice on what else I could due (Side note- Nearly everyone else out of my friend group I hate with my guts)

Category: asked February 22, 2014

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I have been in the same exact situation and this can result in extreme loneliness and isolation. (if youre not there already) I just slowly faded away from all my friends and after awhile i became really lonley. I suggest finding other people to talk to and possibly make new friendships -who knows you might get to know someone you like- before you completely push away your friends now. Maybe consider asking your parent to move to a different school because you are clearly unhappy here. If thats not a possibility try talking to kids from other schools or maybe online
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I see what you're getting at Emilee :P but the thing is my high school is one of the best in the country so there is no way I would be allowed to move away (Other schools in my area are full of druggies, thugs and alcoholics etc) I have spoke to many people online but it just upsets me more because I am unable to contact them all the time due to school and such. Also the fact I will probably never meet any of them upsets me because its fine talking to people but then in real life you're all alone.
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i had the same problem with my friends and i got really depressed,and i didn't like anyone else,but i tried talking to people and eventually i realized that they aren't so bad.so i think you should try meeting new friends and you'll realize that they aren't as bad as you thought,and if that doesn't work i think you should try to spend a little time with different people and consider them as classmates and not b.f.f.s
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i know how you feel and have gone through this too. just slowly start pulling away, to get rid of them first. (not in a mean way tho) like dont text them as much, dont hang out with them as much, and try not to hate everyone. i mean ppl are annoying as HELLLL but theres gotta be a few good people at your school! and theres nothing wrong with being alone. it may be hard but being alone is totally fine, until you figure out some new friends. good luck :)